
This post is all about personality. Halloween decor doesn't have to look like everyone else's, and it doesn't have to be loud to be fun. Your home should feel like you, even in October.
It's a little later than I wanted, but it's still early in the month, so there's plenty of time for all you late birds. This one is for fall, and especially for Halloween, and a lot of it will carry you all the way to Christmas. (Christmas gets its own post, coming soon.)
So we'll start with the originals, soften them with neutrals, and then make it yours. Grab a cozy drink, and let's get into it.
Start With The Originals
When you think of Halloween, what colors come to mind? Bright orange, yellow, purple and black. Basically, candy corn. Those are the originals, and they matter. They're fun, they're nostalgic, and they're what make Halloween feel like Halloween. So I'm not saying throw them out and start a whole new Halloween theme. That's not the idea at all. Keep the originals in mind, and play off of them.

Then the whole world went black, white and beige (and gray, which honestly I can't stand anymore, so I only use it in very small doses), and Halloween followed. And it worked. It still works. Black, white and beige aren't really colors, they're neutrals, and they work for Halloween because they were always part of it: ghosts are white (or a little beige), and black is the night sky and the black cat.

Neutrals always work. But do only neutrals, all the time, and your personality starts to fade away. That's where the originals come back in, just softened. Pair black, white and beige with burnt orange, and it's beautiful. Or try black, beige and white with a burgundy plum, like that candlelit table from Accent4Home. It still reminds you of Halloween, you're just taking a more elegant, elevated route. (I wrote a whole post about trends that I will share closer to the new year. Stay tuned, it all connects to this one.)


And I love what White Hill Home did here: a white pumpkin on a cake stand, a little linen and silver mercury glass.
Decorate For The Season, Not Just One Day
So here's my take. If you love the full candy corn Halloween, bright orange, yellow, purple and all, have fun with it, truly! Just keep it to a day or two, three max. Those bright colors don't exactly calm the mind, and I promise you, you, your guests and everyone around you will get sick of them. That's why that kind of decor comes down the minute Halloween is over. A little tacky can be a lot of fun, and the day itself is the perfect time for it.
The originals are lovely, but if you only ever use the originals, just because that's the norm, you're not really getting creative with them. It's okay to venture out. You can have an incredible, beautiful Halloween that isn't basic: black, white and beige, plus muted versions of the original colors. For the rest of the season, start with your neutrals and add some personality. Into pink? Go for it. Into funky stripes? Why not. Put a pink or striped pumpkin right next to a beige one.
And remember, real pumpkins come in neutrals too: beige, cream, white and pale green, plus all the gourds. Back in the day, orange was the only pumpkin anyone talked about. They all work for fall, and they all work for Halloween.
So if you want to decorate for the whole season, here are some ideas. Just look at these shelves of heirloom pumpkins that Kate Mathis photographed for Martha Stewart Living.

Keep The Neutrals, Mute The Colors
Keep the neutrals, and keep the colors subtle. Use color sparingly, or if you use a lot of it, soften it. And by that I don't mean pastel. I mean a color that's a bit muted, which really just means it has a little gray in it. That's the gray I can live with, and honestly love: a color with just a touch of gray, so it's never loud. Especially this time of year, you want to be moody, and muted colors are moody.

So keep the neutrals we already know, and bring the originals back in, softened. Love the yellow from candy corn? Do yellow, just muted instead of loud and bright. Same with orange: go burnt orange. Green works too, as long as it's soft, like sage or moss. And instead of that typical monster purple, use plum and burgundy.
You also don't have to use them all together. Personally, I'm not a fan of purple, yellow and orange side by side, so I separate them. In a big room they can each have their own spot, just not all in one group. Black, white and beige always go together. Add muted yellow and burnt orange and you have a combination that just works, one most people are happy with. I just wouldn't add the purple to it. If you're more into plum, skip the yellow and orange and go black, white, beige, plum and burgundy.

Whichever colors you pick, keep them muted. Look for muted pumpkins. Real pumpkins already come that way: soft, organic and natural, and they're beautiful. It's usually the plastic ones that get bright and loud. The good news is that stores like T.J. Maxx, Marshalls, Target and even Walmart (a big round of applause to Walmart, they've really upped their decor game) have caught on that muted, quieter colors are beautiful and in. So you won't have much trouble finding pretty pieces. Just stay away from the bright stuff.

And play with different shades of a color, not just one. Plum and burgundy, for example, are two shades of purple. Purples from a soft gray-lilac to deep plum, greens from sage to moss to almost black, oranges from blush to rust. Shades of the same color look rich and layered instead of flat.


For softer greens and whites, Curious Details set sage pumpkins on cake stands, and Graydon Herriott shot these gray-green and white ones on an old wood table. I'm also obsessed with the tiny white pumpkins with dark stems, white on white, and how cute are those fuzzy little ones in mauve, white and sage on weathered wood?




| Instead of | Try | Why |
|---|---|---|
| Bright orange | Burnt orange, rust | Warm, earthy, lasts all fall |
| Bright yellow | Muted yellow, mustard, ochre | Still sunny, never loud |
| Bright green | Sage, moss | Soft and earthy |
| Monster purple | Plum, burgundy | Deep and moody, works all fall |
| All of it together | Black, white and beige, plus one or two of the above | Calm enough to live with for months |
Studio McGee did plum and burgundy beautifully here, with a little ghost garland and twisted plum tapers.
Make It Cozy, Like A Hug
We want cozy. We want what we decorate with to feel like a hug. You are creating a mood, and in fall the mood is warm.
Lighting is huge in creating a cozy environment, and it's a biggie in fall. The days are shorter, so the cozy increases. The rain and the cold call for coziness. So embrace this time, and embrace the moodiness. Lamps on, ceiling lights off, and candles, lots of candles. (Everything in lighting makes the mood goes double now.) And those glowing bag lanterns? They're from Serax, and I can't get enough of them.


And it doesn't have to be a big production. Heck, even something small and cute like this makes a difference this season. A candle, two little white pumpkins and a sign. Just be intentional about it.



Use What The Season Gives You
If you're one of those people who just wants to decorate once and be done, this part is for you. Use what nature gives you: twigs, cones, dried oranges and greenery. Anything from nature, its colors and its materials, we just don't get sick of. Somehow we're made that way. We see nature every day, all over the world, and nobody has ever said, "You know what? I'm sick of that tree." So these work the whole season, all the way to Christmas. Bare branches are what this season looks like anyway, so go for a walk, collect a few, put them in a vase, and enjoy them for months. Same with pinecones: they work from Halloween right through Christmas. The bare branches in a dark stoneware vase from Daily Home Safety and the dried orange and pinecone garland from Cupful of Cozy show exactly what I mean.


And dried oranges! They give you that burnt orange color of fall, and they work all the way through Christmas too. Dry the slices with a little cinnamon and your house will literally smell like cookies. It's such a beautiful scent for the season. And they're not just decor: a bowl of them makes a space smell like potpourri or a candle would, and you can drop a slice in your hot tea, your mulled wine (the Germans call it Glühwein), or a whiskey that needs a little orangey touch.
Here's how I dry them. Slice the oranges and put them in the oven on very low heat, barely any heat at all. If your oven has an air fry setting, use it: all that moving air helps dry them out. Then let them go slowly, for about three days, until all the juice has dried out. It's very low heat, but still, turn the oven off whenever you leave the house or go to sleep. Once they're dry, they're ready for everything above.
Cotton stems are another one. They have all the colors of fall, they're organic, and they feel original because they're not the typical Halloween stuff, but they still remind you of the season. Dried corn works too, especially the purple or plum kind. I've never dried my own, so I don't have tips on that one, but it's a beautiful idea.
And a fun trick: there's a way to make real food last as decor with a clear sealing spray. My dad did it once with a loaf of bread from Panera, and we kept that bread as decor for ten years! So it can be done.
Add real pumpkins and gourds too, the warty ones, the white ones, the pale green ones. Group them in different sizes instead of lining them up. A pile always looks more generous than a row.




And it's not just pumpkins. Flowers are a thing for Halloween too. Fall is mum season, so look for the moody colors: dusty plum, rust, deep burgundy. Mix in something dried and let it look a little wild. A bouquet like this says October without a single pumpkin.

Orange flowers can also give you that fall vibe without having to be a pumpkin. Orange mums, dahlias, or even branches with little orange fruit on them, in a simple vase.

Hunt For Vintage
Thrift stores and Marketplace are full of fall gold right now: brass candlesticks, old dark frames, antique mirrors, little cloches. Mix a few with your candles and sticks and you get that old, a little haunted, collected feeling, without a single plastic skull. She Looks Good Daily nailed it with an old wood tray and a brass candlestick, and that sweet ghost with a candle is a print from Life on Summerhill.


And Jennifer Lanne shows that one pumpkin can be enough: a warty green one in a white bowl, on an old hand-painted chair.

Now, Let's Add Some Personality
Everything so far is the way to go if you want your home to feel grown-up, elegant and elevated. It's the easier way, and the safest. It will look good, and everybody will enjoy it.
Now I'm about to contradict myself a little, because I also want you to have fun and bring your personality into Halloween. If you like pink, use pink! Just remember that pink can be muted too, not a bright pink that's super loud. The exception is one piece. If a piece, or a color, is really special to you, use it. Just be mindful of it.
And you can go a little out of control, in a good way. If your dream is an all-pink Halloween, there is a beautiful way to do that, you just have to be careful. Use different shades of pink, some muted and some a little louder, but all with a touch of that gray in them, so it never gets loud and annoying. Getting it right usually takes either a design eye or a professional, and this is Halloween, so you shouldn't need to hire a professional. So here's my professional advice: dive into Pinterest and study it for three or four days. Figure out exactly what you want to do with that pink before you start, instead of just doing it to do it.
I'm all in for a color pop. It just needs to be done right. There are ways to contrast colors, or to pick colors that complement each other, that look really good together, and if you can pull that off on your own, that's incredible. Pink pumpkins, painted checks and stripes: pick your palette and stick to it, so it looks chosen and not chaotic.
And personality doesn't have to mean a lot of bright color. If you love a bright color, you can use it subtly, in stripes, for example. If you're into stripes, you get to do stripes and still use your bright-ish color, without it being in your face. It's much more doable, it's fun, and it puts a smile on people's faces when they're in your home.
Why am I pushing personality? Because we need a little more fun in this world. Everything went black, white and beige for a while, and I do understand why that happened. (I'm working on a post about design through the eras and how we got to the point where everything was black and white. It's not about Halloween, but I think you'll really enjoy it.) Now we're finally bringing personality back in, the right way. So be intentional, and be fun. Don't lose your personality just because you want to play it safe. But if safe is what you can handle right now, that's okay too. Safe and elevated is still better than just doing the originals.
For a little inspiration, here's a pink gingham pumpkin from Dimples and Tangles, pink and white stripes from Today Mommy, and checks from MacKenzie-Childs. And those little white pumpkins scattered on bright pink? You get your pink without painting a thing.


Make It Yours
The most important thing: use your personality. Forget a bit of the traditional and what people expect. Do unexpected stuff, but stay true to who you are. Basically, don't go along with the crowd. Do your own thing, and make it interesting. Use patterns, use your vinyls, use vintage pictures with cute ghosts or cats.
- If you are a movie person, use popcorn.
- If you are a boho girl, use reeds and pampas.

- If you are a Gatsby gal, use pearls, feathers and velvet, like this feather wreath with a velvet bow from Pouring Flowers.
- If you like wabi sabi, go for a lot of linen, beiges, and old, imperfect pumpkins. I'm obsessed with the raw paper mache jack-o'-lanterns from Factory Direct Craft, the matte black ceramic ones from House of Jade Home, and Crate & Barrel's worn, textured pumpkins.




- If you are a reader, pull out your old books. Stack them on a shelf with a few velvet pumpkins, some dried hydrangeas and a string of fairy lights.
- If you are a baking or cooking momma, use your cutting boards as decor, and make delish treats that are fun and cute.
Or keep the kitchen subtle: a black cat figurine on the open shelves, a little pumpkin on an old tin, a plaid towel, walnuts in a bowl. Just enough to say it's October. Bakers, you can even decorate with your tools: hang your Halloween cookie cutters (a witch, a black cat, a ghost, a bat) on a wooden board by the stove.
And Sorted by Me got the subtle kitchen just right: burgundy leaves, cutting boards, pears and a striped towel.

- If you are into granny style (it's so in right now, and it's basically cottagecore too), find some granny embroidery and use plaid and gingham. The roses on those pink pumpkins were painted by Laura Beth Love of Dishfunctional Designs, and they're pure granny charm.

- If you are a minimalist who likes color, keep it to three or four pumpkins in plum, blush and dusty blue, and one brass candlestick. That's it. Lots of white space around them.
- If you are an airy minimalist, keep it simple and add just one cute little something, like a tiny felt pumpkin garland across the mantel.

- If you are a quirky, fun person, skip the expected and go for odd little things that make you smile, like a tiny ceramic mushroom next to a big warty gourd.

And so on. There is no wrong answer, as long as it looks like you.

Not sure which one you are? Take our style quiz, then go pick your pumpkins.
Get Crafty
And this is my favorite part: get crafty, and truly make it your own. Paint your pumpkins. Cheetah spots (the colorful ones from Katie Herman are my favorite), a scalloped edge, little stars, a painted vine. Grab your nail polish for the tiny details. Stitch a little pumpkin on gingham, or cut a ghost garland out of old book pages.
And The Littlest Thing nailed the mini ones: nail-polish swirls and tiny stenciled ferns, moons and stars.



It doesn't have to be perfect, that's what makes it yours. Make a night of it with your kids or your friends and a scary movie on. Trust me, you will have even more fun, and it will become memorable.
Or go floral. Big painted roses, a little folk-art bouquet, on a dark pumpkin or a pale pink one. They are so pretty they can stay out all fall.
And if you are feeling funky, go all out. Paint a pumpkin hot pink or brush it black and gold, cut it open and fill it with flowers, berries and pods like a vase, or pop it on a painted candlestick so it stands tall. Fun, a little wild, and one of a kind. That black and gold one bursting with dahlias is by Attila Nemeth Florist, and Amy Moffatt painted those big peonies on matte blue.



Now The Fun Part
Enough serious decor. Halloween is fun, so let's have some.
Use Interesting Things
Think about what this season actually is. Around Halloween, everyone is watching scary movies. So why not use popcorn? String it into a popcorn garland and hang it on the mantel, across a bookshelf, or around the window where you watch your movies. It's cheap, it's cozy, it smells good, and it's a little bit nostalgic.
And a little cobweb never hurt anyone. Stretch some over a candlestick, in one corner of a bookshelf, or across an old frame. A little, not the whole house. Just enough to make someone look twice. (Those ghost-face popcorn bags were photographed by Pernille Enoch.)
That's the idea: use things that remind you of something. The movie nights, the hikes, the candy bowl at your grandma's house. Be original and be different. Decor that comes from your own memories will always feel more special than anything from the seasonal aisle.
If You Really Want To Get Into It
If you are really into Halloween, go for an atmosphere. Hang dark, see-through linen curtains. They soften the light, they move when the window is open, and the whole room suddenly feels like an old house on a misty night.
And add flying bats, paper ones across a wall or swooping up the stairs. That's more of a fun factor, so maybe make it a one-week thing, the last week of October. If you are really into Halloween all month, go for it all month. It's your home.
Or hang floating candles over the dining table, like this dreamy setup by Studio Lok. A little magic, and the whole room glows. I'd use flameless candles that look real, so it stays safe.

One Fun Thing For The Day Itself
Now, don't take it all too seriously. For Halloween itself, add one or two things that make you smile: a skeleton sitting in your reading chair with a book, a great spooky print, a bowl of candy in an old silver dish. On November 1, put those away, along with the skeletons and anything else very Halloween-y, and keep the rest: the pumpkins, the sticks, the cones, the candles and the dried oranges. If your decor is calm and beautiful, it carries you right through Thanksgiving, and now you have a beautiful home for Thanksgiving too. A lot of it even lasts all the way to Christmas.

My favorite Halloween piece this year? This ghost bucket from Bethany Lowe Designs. It's paper mache, a little spooky and a little sweet, and not tacky at all. It's made as a candy bucket, but I wouldn't fill it with candy. I'd do what Bethany Lowe suggests and fill it with a dried floral arrangement. Then it's a real centerpiece, and a decor piece all on its own. If you love it as much as I do, you can grab one here.
And for more little ghosts, Abloom Decor styled this coffee table with two cloth ghosts on a book, a branch in a vase and a few paper bats.

The Short Version
- Don't throw out the originals (orange, yellow, purple and black). Keep them in mind and play off of them.
- Decorate for the season, not just one day.
- Keep black, white and beige as your base (go easy on gray). Just don't do only neutrals forever.
- Mute the colors: burnt orange, muted yellow, sage or moss green, and plum and burgundy instead of monster purple.
- Keep your colors muted (a touch of gray in them). Real pumpkins already are, and the stores have muted ones too. Skip the bright plastic.
- You don't need every color together: black, white and beige with muted yellow and burnt orange, or with plum and burgundy.
- Love the full, bright candy corn look? Have fun with it for a day or two, three max.
- It's okay to venture out from the originals and get creative.
- Add personality: a pink or funky striped pumpkin next to a beige one.
- Cozy like a hug: lamps, candles, ceiling lights off.
- The elegant, muted way is the easy, safe way. It looks good and everybody enjoys it.
- Still, add personality. Like pink? Use pink, muted, or one loud piece that's special to you.
- Want a big color pop, like an all-pink Halloween? Study it on Pinterest for a few days first, so it looks chosen, not chaotic.
- Love a bright color? Try it in stripes. It's fun without being in your face.
- Be intentional and be fun. But safe and elevated still beats just the originals.
- Make it yours: decorate for your personality, not what people expect.
- Decorate once with nature: twigs, cones, dried oranges, greenery, cotton stems and dried corn, from Halloween to Christmas. We never get sick of nature.
- Dry orange slices with cinnamon on very low heat (the air fry setting helps) over a few days: fall color, a cookie smell, and they last through Christmas.
- Get crafty: paint, stitch and cut your own decor. It will be more fun, and more memorable.
- Use interesting things: a popcorn garland for movie nights, a little cobweb.
- Really into it? Dark see-through linen curtains for atmosphere, and flying bats for the last week (or all month).
- One or two fun things for the day itself, then put them away.
- After Halloween, put away the skeletons and keep the pumpkins, cones and dried oranges. Calm decor carries you through Thanksgiving.
And stay tuned: a Christmas post is coming soon.
Happy fall, and happy Halloween! If you want some of this cozy to stay after the season, send us a few photos.